Preventative Measures (Postpartum Psychosis Part 5)
I know I keep saying this with every post, but if you’re just joining in on this “series” on postpartum psychosis, go back and read parts 1, 2, 3, and 4.
As I mentioned in the last post, I met with my psychiatrist in Chapel Hill a few months before my second child was born, and we came up with a prevention plan that turned out to be successful. The plan was really pretty simple.
1. I started taking Clonazepam at night before bed while I was still in the hospital. Clonazepam is an anti-anxiety medication and he suggested I take it at night so that the drug would peak in my system during sleep, rather than during the day when I would be breastfeeding. This medication aided me in being able to sleep through the night and helped reduce my anxiety about getting sleep. I was advised to take it for 3 weeks, and then discontinue use.
2. SLEEP, SLEEP, SLEEP. This was the most important thing in preventing a recurrence. My husband, Jared, committed to getting up with the baby at night for the first 3 weeks (and more, if needed). Jared and baby slept in a separate part of the house so that I wouldn’t be disturbed. The baby was fed formula for his nighttime feedings and I went to bed around 11. I slept through the night and fed the baby his first morning feeding (around 6 or 7).
3. Rest and take it slow. I didn’t let myself stress over house stuff. And, if I had tried, my husband would have stopped me! My responsibility was to take care of my baby, and that was it. Of course, there were times I really felt up to doing some things around the house, and so I did. But, I didn’t push myself. I slowed down and only did the things that I felt I had the energy to do.
I am so incredibly thankful that I was able to have a normal postpartum experience after the birth of our second child. I wanted so badly to be able to nurse and it worked out. I realized just how much I had missed the first time, as I enjoyed every second with my baby. Of course, along with the joy I felt in having a normal experience, I also dealt with grief over all I missed with my first child. I am still saddened by that loss, but am so thankful that I’ve had a second chance to experience the beauty of motherhood as it should be. I’m thrilled that I will have this opportunity once again with baby #3!
Next post: Warning signs of postpartum psychosis. I’ll be back!
Oh, and by the way……………
If any of you want to ask questions in the comments below, I would love to try and answer them!
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I just want to say that it is very brave of you to share this story. I know it has not been an easy journey for you, to say the least. But what an amazing story it is. I admire your bravery and courage, and how God has walked through the entire journey with you. I am honored to hear your heart.
Thank you so much, Denise. I really appreciate that. You’re right, God has walked faithfully with me through it all. I am blown away by His care for me. He has given me a story of hope and restored so much along the way. Healing is a journey, and He’s not done with me yet!
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