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Preventative Measures (Postpartum Psychosis Part 5)

I know I keep saying this with every post, but if you’re just joining in on this “series” on postpartum psychosis, go back and read parts 1, 2, 3, and 4.

As I mentioned in the last post, I met with my psychiatrist in Chapel Hill a few months before my second child was born, and we came up with a prevention plan that turned out to be successful.  The plan was really pretty simple.

1.  I started taking Clonazepam at night before bed while I was still in the hospital.  Clonazepam is an anti-anxiety medication and he suggested I take it at night so that the drug would peak in my system during sleep, rather than during the day when I would be breastfeeding.  This medication aided me in being able to sleep through the night and helped reduce my anxiety about getting sleep.  I was advised to take it for 3 weeks, and then discontinue use.

2.  SLEEP, SLEEP,  SLEEP.  This was the most important thing in preventing a recurrence.  My husband, Jared, committed to getting up with the baby at night for the first 3 weeks (and more, if needed).  Jared and baby slept in a separate part of the house so that I wouldn’t be disturbed.  The baby was fed formula for his nighttime feedings and I went to bed around 11.  I slept through the night and fed the baby his first morning feeding (around 6 or 7).

3.  Rest and take it slow.  I didn’t let myself stress over house stuff. And, if I had tried, my husband would have stopped me!   My responsibility was to take care of my baby, and that was it.  Of course, there were times I really felt up to doing some things around the house, and so I did.  But, I didn’t push myself.  I slowed down and only did the things that I felt I had the energy to do.

I am so incredibly thankful that I was able to have a normal postpartum experience after the birth of our second child.  I wanted so badly to be able to nurse and it worked out.  I realized just how much I had missed the first time, as I enjoyed every second with my baby.  Of course, along with the joy I felt in having a normal experience, I also dealt with grief over all I missed with my first child.  I am still saddened by that loss, but am so thankful that I’ve had a second chance to experience the beauty of motherhood as it should be. I’m thrilled that I will have this opportunity once again with baby #3!

Next post:  Warning signs of postpartum psychosis.  I’ll be back!

Oh, and by the way……………

If any of you want to ask questions in the comments below, I would love to try and answer them!

4 comments

1 Denise McCoy { 04.03.09 at 12:02 pm }

I just want to say that it is very brave of you to share this story. I know it has not been an easy journey for you, to say the least. But what an amazing story it is. I admire your bravery and courage, and how God has walked through the entire journey with you. I am honored to hear your heart.

2 Lyra { 04.03.09 at 6:05 pm }

Thank you so much, Denise. I really appreciate that. You’re right, God has walked faithfully with me through it all. I am blown away by His care for me. He has given me a story of hope and restored so much along the way. Healing is a journey, and He’s not done with me yet!

3 MacKenzie { 04.28.11 at 10:35 pm }

Lyra,
WOW! Thank you for sharing. I actually did a search for prevention for PPP because me and my husband are thinking of having our 2nd child and I came across your article. I had my first child 3 years ago and had a very similar experience to yours. I am so relieved to hear that you had a 2nd child without a relapse. It gives me hope that I have a chance to have a normal postpartum experience too. I have been reading all over the internet that your chances of PPP increase by 50% if you have had PPP before. This frightens me as you know it is literally the most horrifying experience and can create serious danger for everyone. Thanks again for sharing. It’s so hard to find info and support for PPP, it really helps to read a similar story.

4 Leslie { 05.15.11 at 11:54 am }

I am going recovering from postpartum psychosis now and I’m just now able to get on the computer because I thought it was ….well not ready to talk about it know but I would like to thank you for your story.

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